In the end, all action a person takes is because he, or she, believes that the action will cause his world to be closer to what he desires it to be.
If you want, you can ponder that for a while before continuing.
I tend to get into really deep conversations with people one on one. I’ll probe not only into whatever the main topic is we are discussing, but also into very personal matters. I do this because I care deeply about people, but it is also based on some of my beliefs and desires.